I venture to say I'm attractive. A nice looking 'young lady,' ha! Yet, once the male species gets to know me, my personality is too strong, I'm too abrasive, too much. So, I am forced to reduce another piece of me in hopes that someone will come along and find me 'just right.' Yet, a huge part of me says, "No! Do not succumb to the charges of man. You are unique, you are beautiful, you are precious! Like no other... do not change!"
And I digress... there are things I need to change about myself. Yes, we all are capable of some positive changes. Yet, I find it hard to know the change that's best for me... while keeping myself - myrealself.